If I am brutally honest it is asking out a young lady. Not simply on the basis of potential rejection, but other factors. Letting someone back under the mask once again is a little daunting. Also the risk of it all going pair shaped is a potential put odfas well. The process of asking them out, knowing the right phrase, demeanour and possibly the risk of reading to much and making an unwanted pass. The girl in question works at one of my watering holes and truth is as it is a busy place I haven’t really talked too her outside a bit of four way banter with Tom and Mike, plus as they might say on ‘How I Met Your Mother’, I don’t want to ruin the bar for my mates.